How does one have her cake and eat it to? Can it even be done? I think so, to a point. There is a way to be fab and diva without being rude and a bitch. I think I've proven this. I've been a high performer at my job without sucking up or stepping on people. I do this by sticking to the following:
1. Be fierce, intense but fair
2. Develop people to be smarter than me
3. Open communication, not one sided but real street
4. Assume positive intent, not everyone is out to get me
5. Never get bored, be self aware if I get bored its time to mix things up and reboot
